Common Mistakes in a Divorce

 Posted on April 11,2013 in Divorce

There are many professionals who deal with the process of divorce, and who are interested in helping during the transition.  Therapists try to deal with the emotional aspects of a divorce.  Financial advisers and accountants try to deal with the implications of the division of property.  Lawyers can help you with the whole process on a more general level, and make sure that all aspects of a divorce are done according to the law.  Having support is important, but there are more steps you can take to stop some of the common mistakes during divorce.

One common mistake of people who are thinking of divorcing their spouse is being too rash.  Just like you wouldn't buy something major without shopping around, you also shouldn't rush into filing for divorce.  The decision to divorce can be ruled by emotions, but it should be a well thought out decision.

Another mistake that divorcing people often make is trying to maintain a friendship with their ex.  It is important that your divorce goes smoothly, but that doesn’t mean that you should be friendly in any way that can be construed as intimate. It is also important for any children in the family that your relationship is not confusing. Your relationship during a divorce can affect things such as child custody, and will create a precedent for future co-parenting. If you are honest and work together through the divorce, you can reduce the necessity for any future modifications to your divorce agreement.  Contact an experienced divorce attorney in Saint Charles if you have decided to get a divorce.

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