Working Through Your Divorce Is a Team Effort

 Posted on April 06,2018 in Divorce

It is not just an empty platitude when people tell you that you do not have to go through your divorce alone. A happy and successful divorcee often has a team of people helping him or her out. Your divorce attorney may be the most important member of your divorce support team because he or she will lead you through the complex legal process. However, there are more support team members that can help you in other areas during your divorce.

Financial Support

Your attorney should be versed in the financial necessities of your divorce, but it can help to work with a financial professional. If you are unsure of who to use, your attorney may be able to recommend someone to you. A financial planner can advise you about:

• Creating a sustainable personal budget for after your divorce;
• Identifying key properties from your marriage;
• Making long-term investments for future profitability; and
• Saving money for your retirement or a college fund for your children.

By having a detailed financial plan, your attorney can better identify goals for your divorce negotiations.

Emotional Support

Outside of your professional support team members, you need friends and family to provide emotional support. Your divorce will at times make you tired and stressed out. Those closest to you can help by:

• Listening to you express your frustrations;
• Providing calm, supportive feedback;
• Reminding you of the positives in your life; and
• Finding activities that will take your mind off your stress.

Different friends and family members can serve different roles. For instance, spending time with your children is a great way to relieve stress, but your children should not be your confidants for your divorce-related grievances. An adult friend, therapist or support group are the best candidates as sounding boards for your frustrations.

Parental Support

You should also have members of your support team that can help you with your parenting responsibilities. You and your co-parent are the primary caretakers for your children, but there will be times when your divorce gets in the way. You need family members or close friends that you can rely on to watch your kids when you are busy with work or exhausted from your divorce. Your children may need their own therapist or support group to help them cope with their emotions relating to the divorce.

Winning Strategy

While it is good to have a diverse divorce support team, you should remember that your attorney is the person you must turn to for legal guidance. Friends and family, in particular, like to make suggestions about what you should do during your divorce. A Kane County divorce attorney at Goostree Law Group has the experience and knowledge to help you obtain a favorable divorce settlement. Schedule a free consultation by calling 630-584-4800.

Source:

http://www.divorcemag.com/blog/how-to-create-your-divorce-support-team