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Paternity Terms to Know and Understand
If you are involved in a paternity-related legal case, whether you are a mother who wants to prove her child's paternity or a man who wants to establish legal paternity rights to his child, there are a few key terms to know and understand. Although paternity might seem like a simple concept, it can become complicated from a legal perspective. If you have questions about your legal rights as a mother or a father in Illinois and how you can establish paternity of your child, work with an experienced Illinois paternity attorney.
Who Is a Legal Father?
A legal father is the father who has legal parental rights to a child. This includes the right to make “big” decisions on the child's behalf, such as decisions about the child's medical care or schooling, as well as the right to seek court-ordered parenting time with the child and child support from the child's other parent to cover the expenses related to raising the child.
Name Change after Divorce
According to Time magazine, despite the recent rise of married women choosing to retain their maiden names after marriage, approximately 80 percent still choose to alter their names in some way, either by taking their husbands' names or by hyphenating their husbands' names with this own. These women often face the issue of changing their names again when they divorce. Although some opt to retain their husbands' names in order to have names that match their children, many divorced women look forward to the day that they can remove this connection to their former husband from their identity.
If you have recently been divorced or plan to divorce in the near future and you want to change your name, you will need to complete the legal name change process. Consider speaking to an attorney for help with this process.
Changing Your Name with the Social Security Administration
To change your name with the Department of Motor Vehicles and on other official documents, you first need to change your name with the Social Security Administration (SSA). This is done through a completed Application for Social Security Card (Form S-55). This must be done in person or by mail. To change your name you need the following:
Dressing for Family Court
If you find yourself heading to court to reach a decision in your divorce or family law issue, it is important that you dress appropriately for the occasion. It is not uncommon for individuals to show up to court in clothing that is far too casual or otherwise inappropriate for a courtroom setting, due to both the relaxing decorum rules of our society and the fact that many people have never previously been inside a courtroom.
Keep It Conservative
This is the most important rule to keep in mind when determining what you will wear to court. A tasteful, conservative outfit is always your best choice. Ways to style yourself conservatively include:
- Choosing neutral colors like navy blue and forest green. Wear a solid color or a demure pattern, like pinstripes, rather than a loud or distracting pattern or color;
- Leave everything to the imagination. Shirts on both sexes should be neatly buttoned to the top and clothing should not grip the body tightly, but rather fit appropriately. Skirts should reach the knee and shoes should not have open toes;
New Laws Give Illinois Grandparents New Rights
The bond between a grandparent and their grandchild is special. Grandparents are the ones who bring tasty treats, impart timeless wisdom, and bend their children's rules to make memories with their grandchildren. In some families, grandparents play a much more vital role in their grandchildren's lives.
They might be their substantial, or even primary, caretakers. In its recent rewrite of the laws governing parental rights in Illinois, the state legislature acknowledged the realities that thousands of grandparents face as their grandchildren's caretakers and created new legal rights for them. Grandparents’ rights are an important part of family law. If you are a grandparent who is not sure about your rights to your grandchild, speak with an experienced family attorney to determine these rights.
Adoption Registry Rights for Grandparents
One of the changes to Illinois family law that came with the beginning of 2016 was the set of amendments to the Illinois Adoption Act. In these revisions, biological parents of deceased individuals who placed children for adoption may submit paperwork to become eligible to exchange information with their adult adopted grandchildren. This exchange is facilitated by the Illinois Adoption Registry and Medical Information Exchange. It is designed to allow individuals to contact their biological grandchildren to establish contact or exchange information about their medical history. If the grandchild is under the age of 21, a biological grandparent may exchange information with his or her adoptive parent or legal guardian or, if the grandchild is also deceased, his or her adult child or surviving spouse.
Relocation and Child Custody
Previously, if a custodial parent wanted to relocate out of Illinois with his or her child, he or she needed to obtain an Order of Removal from the court to be able to do so. This came after the court examined the situation fully, seeking answers to issues like whether the move would provide a better quality of life for the child, whether the child could continue to maintain a relationship with his or her other parent after the move, and whether moving out of Illinois was, in fact, necessary for the parent and child to change their lives for the better. The only exception to such examinations were cases where the child's other parent approved of the move in writing. Moving within Illinois was not regulated by the court at all.
But since the changes to the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act went into effect on January 1, 2016, the rules are different for parents who want to move with their children. Now, certain moves within the state do require permission from the court, while some moves out of Illinois do not.
The Illinois Domestic Violence Act
The Illinois Domestic Violence Act of 1986 was passed in order to clearly define the actions that are considered to be domestic violence and give victims a legal process to protect themselves from their abusers. When an individual experiences domestic violence in his or her marriage, he or she may seek an order of protection against his or her spouse, as per this act. Once he or she is safe from further violence, he or she may consider seeking a divorce.
The Illinois Domestic Violence Act Defines Who Is a Victim
Although many automatically assume that victims of domestic violence suffer at the hands of their intimate partners, there are actually many classes of individuals who can be defined as domestic violence victims. Under the Act, individuals who have any of the following types of relationship with their abusers are considered to be victims of domestic violence:
- Current or former spouses;
Talking to Children about Divorce
When you and your spouse decide that your marriage is irreparably broken and the best choice is to end it through divorce, you find yourself facing a series of difficult discussions. How you will divide your property, how you will divide parenting duties, and whether spousal maintenance is appropriate are all issues that may come up during the divorce process. One of the most difficult discussions you will have to have will take place outside the courtroom: telling your children that you are getting a divorce.
Make It a Family Discussion
Probably the most important step to take when telling your children about your plan to divorce is for you and your spouse to speak with them together. Find a calm, quiet block of time in your schedule and arrange a family meeting to discuss the divorce.
It is important that you and your spouse support each other during this discussion. Do not blame him or her or discuss what went wrong in your relationship. Instead, focus on what your divorce means for your family and the next steps you will take.
Four Ways to Hurt Your Divorce Case
When you are working through a divorce, there is the right way to do things and the wrong way to do things. When you do things the wrong way, you run the chance of hurting your case and potentially losing money, property, or time and parenting duties with your child. If you are ever unsure about how to handle a situation that arises or conduct yourself in or outside of court, ask your attorney for guidance. As a preliminary framework, though, keep certain tips in mind to help your own divorce case.
Ignoring Court Orders
A representative of the court will contact you at various points during the divorce process. You might be summoned to appear in court, to give a deposition, or to work with a child custody evaluator to help the court determine an appropriate parenting time schedule for your child. In any of these scenarios, respond promptly to the request and give the court the information it asks for. Failure to comply with the court's orders can count against you in further dealings with the court, such as petitioning to modify your parenting time agreement.
Equitable Distribution: Protecting Professional Practices in Divorce
If you are a doctor, an attorney, an accountant, a therapist, or any other type of professional that typically works within an individual or group professional practice, you need to consider how your earnings from this practice and interest in it may be divided between you and your spouse during your divorce. Working at a professional practice is not the same as working for an employer, nor is it necessarily the same as working as an independent contractor. You are running a business, either on your own or with partners.
It is important that you work with a divorce attorney who has experience handling such professionals' divorces to ensure that your interests in your practice are protected. Keep the following in mind as you enter a relationship with your attorney and begin the process of dissolving your marriage.
Your Practice Is a Marital Asset
Unless you have a prenuptial agreement in place that states that your professional practice or place within one may not be divided in a divorce, your share of the professional practice is subject to Illinois' equitable distribution laws for property division. This means that the court will examine how the money earned through the practice is spent in your household and the contribution that you and your spouse both make to it. Your spouse's contribution does not necessarily have to mean he or she works at the practice as well – if he or she took on less-demanding work to allow you to devote yourself fully to the practice, this may be considered.
Protecting Your Credit during a Divorce
Getting a divorce can have a significant effect on all areas of your life. Your daily schedule, your relationship with your children and other relatives, and your living situation will all likely be different after your divorce is finalized. If you are not careful, your credit score can also change dramatically, and not in a good way. Divorces are expensive, especially when they are contentious. When a divorcing couple does not have an amicable relationship and thus cannot work together to make financially sound decisions while the divorce is pending, it can be very easy for unpaid bills to pile up and haphazard financial decisions to be made. Work with your spouse and your divorce attorney to maintain control over your finances throughout the divorce process.
Determine Your Joint Bills and Make Sure They Are Paid
This is an important issue for divorcing couples. Your joint bills might include your utilities, your mortgage or rent, your credit cards, and your cell phone bills. If both of your names are on these bills, both you and your spouse are responsible for making sure they are paid every month. Failing to pay a household bill, whether due to vindictiveness toward a former partner or simply forgetting to amid the demands of a pending divorce, can hurt your credit score. Make sure all of your bills are paid, even if your spouse is not holding up his or her financial portion of this responsibility – worry about his or her failure to pay later. Protect yourself from credit consequences now.